Back to the Carolinas: Thank you next

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act, but a habit.

-Aristotle

My love life has been a one sided adventure. I've cried so many tears and learned a lot about myself, others and the world through the process.

My first and only (at the moment)  boyfriend in middle school taught me to never let anyone speak for me in a relationship. Our relationship lasted 2 hours and i let a classmate break up with him for me. It was not one of my proudest moment. 

My crushes taught me that infatuation is fleeting.

A taught me a lot. It was the first time I truly cared for someone. It took me a year to get over him. I learnt a lot from him. I thank him a lot for it. The most important lessons i learnt through my interaction with A are to have self respect, know my worth, have boundaries and choose myself.

The pilot taught me the danger of idolizing someone.

D taught me not to get too attach and to believe in one's action not their words.

Mr. Ghana LDN and Mr. Ghana CLT (two different guys from the beautiful land of Ghana) taught me to trust my gut. Sometimes people don't click.

C is teaching me that innocence still exist in this world. Come what may I will be okay.

I'm thankful for how I handle myself in the end of all my one sided relationships. It made me a stronger person, I know who i am and I know what i want next. Thank you, Next

~xoxo